It is the resistance to "change" that brings on the stress/strife. Acceptance of the change calls upon the strength to endure the necessary adaptations and adjustments.
Its definitely a "Soul Thing". I'm embracing 40 with no regrets with the 30's. Love learning and my biggest teachers are my daughters (Kyra and Keturah). I dislike "the norm" and always strive for authenticity."To Myself I Will Always Be True"